Two ways of experiencing your reality
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Being overly identified with your human self and the three-dimensional world, in contrast with Living in Alignment with your soul.

Your process of identifying how your human self gets in the way of merging with your soul is an integral aspect of the Living in Alignment approach. Your conditioning can both enhance and interfere with your efforts to merge with your soul.
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Overly identified with your human self:
Living in Alignment with your soul:
1. Being externally focused
2. Manipulating others
3. Controlling others
4. Jealous and envious
5. Isolation
6. Superiority and inferiority
7. Competitive
8. You are your conditions
9. Living in a fear-based reality
10. Feeling alone and unconnected
11. Being controlled by outside influences
12. Living in survival mode
13. ‘Me’ mentality
14. Selfishness
15. Doubt
16. Confusion
17. Anxiety
18. Insecurity
19. Judgment
20. Feeling unworthy/undeserving
21. Powerlessness
22. Hopelessness
23. Helplessness
24. Impression management
25. Self-centered
26. Existing and surviving
27. Experiencing abandonment
28. Skewed thinking
29. Look to others as experts
30. Dependence and counter-dependence
31. Disempowered
32. Mediator required to access Source energy
33. Settling for dysfunctional relationships
34. Blame others for circumstances
35. Caught up in drama
36. Trauma repetition
37. Stay in conflict
38. Suspicious of others
39. Living as though separate
40. Greed
41. Personality in conflict with your soul
42. Dualistic
43. Attached to expectations
44. Figuring out your life
45. Resistance
46. Lack of meaning and purpose to your life
47. Desperation
48. Fear of getting old
49. Conforming
50. Unresolved trauma-related issues
51. Resentment
52. Closed heart
53. Experiencing deprivation
54. Perfectionism
55. Active in addictions
56. Critical of yourself, others, and life
57. Taking on other people’s reality
58. Out-of-control behavior
59. Feeling needless and wantless
60. Shame-based reality
61. Living in guilt
62. Getting stuck in ‘victim consciousness’
63. Focusing on problems
64. Consumed with doing
Being inwardly focused
Trusting the process
Living own life & allowing others to do so
Experiencing abundance
Connectedness
Equality
Inspired living
You are more than your conditions
Living with an open mind & heart
Experiencing oneness with all
Listening to & following inner promptings
Experiencing soul actualization
'Us’ mentality
Global thoughts and actions
Trust
Increasing clarity
Knowing all is well
Eternally safe
Discernment
Being receptive to possibilities
Taking responsibility for your life
Having a sense of meaning and purpose
Being proactive
Inner contentment
Living in partnership
Thriving
Experiencing deeper connection with soul
Clear knowing
Accessing your own wisdom
Interdependence
Co-creative
Direct connection with Source energy
Choosing healthy relationships
Know that all circumstances are serving you
Seeking out choice and opportunity
Receptive to insights, gifts, lessons
Forgiveness
Trust in underlying goodness of others
Feeling interconnected and interdependent
Generosity
Personality in unison with your soul
Viewing ‘the bigger picture’
Positive expectations
Feeling into your life
Acceptance of what is
Living your soul mission
Inspiration
Enjoying all stages of your life
Living in your own truth
Resolution and transformation
Integrating insights, gifts, lessons
Opening your heart to yourself and others
Experiencing abundance
Appreciating your humanity
Effective and skillful living
Enhancing yourself, others, and life
Honoring the reality of others
Living in moderation
Attending to your human and soul needs
Self love
Learning from mistakes
Being empowered
Focusing on solutions
Experiencing Freedom to Be

​What the spiritual path offers is a way to come back into balance, to develop our intuition and the wisdom of our heart, so that the intellect is no longer the master, but instead is the servant of the heart - the part of us that brings us into unity with ourselves and all other beings.
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Ram Dass